Sunday, September 11, 2011

Alone in a room...

          There was a song that my mother used to played every Sunday morning. I'm certain I'm not the only kid that heard it all of the time. It started with Gospel Singer Yolanda Adams beautifully stating that she was alone in a room. Don't we all experience that? We are all, at points in our lives, alone in a room, reaching out for help. These are some of our most pure moments. These are the moments of reflection, the moments that we truly acknowledge our mortality. Sometimes our loudest cries go unheard because of our pride. Sadly, pride is louder than any cry for help. But, dare I say, there is no pride when you are alone in a room. That room is where men cry, where children that have grown up too fast wish they were kids again, where the single mother breaks down, where the addict tries kick his habit, where the young woman wishes she waited, where the teenage boy hopes to be his own man. Do you see it now? We are most alike when we aren't in another's presence. Stripped down to the very core, removed from any kind of affiliation, be it race/ethnicity, religious background, nation...we are all one. We have the same desires to right our wrongs and seek redemption. Neither of the two are easy. If you try to fight these demons alone in a room, you'll surely lose. You don't have to be alone. Fight together. Then again, I'm just a guy with a blog...What do I know?

Growing Pains

There are times in life where it may make the most sense to quit. There were boundaries that were set in place long before you even began your journey. You may want to say to yourself that its not even worth trying. These are the exact reasons you should keep going. Imagine a journey without struggle. What part of your character wouldn't exist if you never had to overcome trials? The failures of others can become the examples in which people live by. Sometimes, those closest to you will find it odd for you to branch out on your own. A lifetime of colonization is extremely difficult to overcome, but its not entirely impossible. You can't be afraid to unlearn the very things you were taught growing up. Though they meant well, some of the very things your families held up to be truths can hold you back. Don't be afraid to let go of some of that baggage. It is definitely ok to travel lightly. Then again, I'm just Lorenza...and this is my blog.